yo if you're learning Gaidhlig on Duolingo and want to friend me hit those DMs babe
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ππ festive possum ππ (glitterwitch@todon.nl)'s status on Sunday, 01-Dec-2019 23:47:39 CET ππ festive possum ππ
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ππ festive possum ππ (glitterwitch@todon.nl)'s status on Saturday, 30-Nov-2019 21:47:21 CET ππ festive possum ππ
the dialectic of pup
thesis: walk
antithesis: nap
synthesis: twitchy dream feets -
ππ festive possum ππ (glitterwitch@todon.nl)'s status on Sunday, 22-Sep-2019 16:22:59 CEST ππ festive possum ππ
reposting with alt text
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ππ festive possum ππ (glitterwitch@todon.nl)'s status on Wednesday, 11-Sep-2019 14:31:19 CEST ππ festive possum ππ
@GreenandBlack I'm lucky to have a reasonably progressive Farmer's Union chapter, so that's a good starting point. otherwise just going to potlucks and doing mutual aid is pretty acceptable to most folks, tho they might not use that term. many of them know the good that unions can do but have just been beat down by the last few decades.
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ππ festive possum ππ (glitterwitch@todon.nl)'s status on Sunday, 07-Jul-2019 17:06:19 CEST ππ festive possum ππ
my inability to stop opening cws has finally resulted in me seeing a surprise dick pic while half awake
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ππ festive possum ππ (glitterwitch@todon.nl)'s status on Friday, 05-Jul-2019 15:29:08 CEST ππ festive possum ππ
I love it when tech bros try to come into conversations and act like their ideas are new or interesting in the least. you, yes the dude getting ready to reply guy, you are the reason we all hated Twitter. shut the fuck
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ππ festive possum ππ (glitterwitch@todon.nl)'s status on Wednesday, 03-Jul-2019 00:57:36 CEST ππ festive possum ππ
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ππ festive possum ππ (glitterwitch@todon.nl)'s status on Sunday, 30-Jun-2019 16:50:00 CEST ππ festive possum ππ
@maloki *puts on headphones* why is no one talking to mee????
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ππ festive possum ππ (glitterwitch@todon.nl)'s status on Sunday, 23-Jun-2019 16:49:11 CEST ππ festive possum ππ
I will block every single angery vegan complaining about egging and milkshaking but only until the carceral white supremacist state falls. After that y'all can complain about eggs.
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ππ festive possum ππ (glitterwitch@todon.nl)'s status on Friday, 21-Jun-2019 05:21:50 CEST ππ festive possum ππ
We could all just stop. We could decide to take care of each other and tear down the fences and never go to work again, but we have to do it together. We could bring the wheels of this monstrous war machine grinding to a halt, we could do it today.
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ππ festive possum ππ (glitterwitch@todon.nl)'s status on Sunday, 16-Jun-2019 21:50:01 CEST ππ festive possum ππ
I try to do small good things, but I'm continually overwhelmed by the sheer number of people in the world and the amount of horrible bullshit that USiasns perpetuate daily. Every social interaction, every idea, every organization is poisoned with liberal capitalist white supremacist bullshit. I want to love people, I want to celebrate humanity in its varied expressions, I want to be joyful and thankful, but what the fuck good does it do when 95% of my neighbors just keep polluting and abusing and plowing and not giving a single fuck
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ππ festive possum ππ (glitterwitch@todon.nl)'s status on Sunday, 16-Jun-2019 17:23:35 CEST ππ festive possum ππ
Casual reminder that some of the most harmful people I've ever interacted with have been queer/trans.
I was most hurtful to others when I leaned loudly into my white feminist nonsense and used my disabilities as an excuse.
Having a marginalized identity doesn't exempt you from self-work. If you want to change the world you've got to be fucking kind. It's hard work but it's worth it. -
ππ festive possum ππ (glitterwitch@todon.nl)'s status on Sunday, 16-Jun-2019 17:15:38 CEST ππ festive possum ππ
If you all don't start practicing empathy and active listening I swear to gods I will turn this revolution back around
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ππ festive possum ππ (glitterwitch@todon.nl)'s status on Tuesday, 11-Jun-2019 03:01:18 CEST ππ festive possum ππ
Hello I love you. Each and every one. You deserve nice things and people who lift you up. You are stardust, made of the same things as the mountains and the trees.
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ππ festive possum ππ (glitterwitch@todon.nl)'s status on Thursday, 06-Jun-2019 22:27:45 CEST ππ festive possum ππ
"It's okay to rest" is a good sentiment, but it ignores the conditions in which most folks live, ie you cannot actually find space and time to rest without being accosted or going broke
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ππ festive possum ππ (glitterwitch@todon.nl)'s status on Tuesday, 14-May-2019 16:43:38 CEST ππ festive possum ππ
Yes, I was loud and mean and emotional
Yes, I lied to avoid arguments at times
But mostly my crimes were being "too needy," or being rude in ways that were imperceptible to me at the time.
If someone had set me down and said "when you do x it makes others uncomfy, but here is a better way to make that need known" I would have immediately changed that behavior. Instead my then partner gave me the silent treatment in between accusations of how awful I was. They had their own shit, but I was fucking trying and they were not.
I have a long history of friendships ending in this same pattern it's exhausting. Thankfully i'm less angry and mean now, but that's only due to reading more books and :cannabis: -
ππ festive possum ππ (glitterwitch@todon.nl)'s status on Tuesday, 14-May-2019 16:37:57 CEST ππ festive possum ππ
Here's the thing - in my experience there's a noticeable difference between people who have learned harmful coping mechanisms or bad relationship models, and people who are straight up narcissists, manipulators, or abusers.
But the /fun part is that ppl in the first group often make perfect targets for people in the second group. Victims already have anxiety and a desire to please. Then! The abuser will convince the victim that they are actually the one being unreasonable and manipulative.
The difference is that one person is trying their fucking best to not hurt anyone and they are being lied to and have poor resources, while the other is actively purposely manipulating them, and often does not regret this or find issue with it.I hope this makes sense it's very close to my own trauma so words my be awkward.
If someone is telling you you're abusive, get outside help. It's almost impossible to remedy this kind of tangled mess w/o a counselor. -
ππ festive possum ππ (glitterwitch@todon.nl)'s status on Tuesday, 14-May-2019 15:39:59 CEST ππ festive possum ππ
The only people i've met who use autism as an excuse to not do any personal work or to treat others like poop are white boys. The entitlement and social coddling combined with missing social cues is a perfect storm. I've met men like this who are proud of the fact that they're misanthropes, eerily similar to those suburban kids who are proud of never drinking water.
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ππ festive possum ππ (glitterwitch@todon.nl)'s status on Monday, 13-May-2019 17:25:08 CEST ππ festive possum ππ
@chartier @maloki yes! I wish all public areas and events had these. I've been to conferences with quiet areas but they were not enforced and all the business fucks were using it as a mobile office
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ππ festive possum ππ (glitterwitch@todon.nl)'s status on Monday, 13-May-2019 16:14:52 CEST ππ festive possum ππ
I love that i'm seeing more people, kids and adults, wearing isolation headphones in public. I assume the schools have finally caught on to the idea that our world is Too Loud for autistic and ADHD etc folks. One school I worked with even had a Quiet Room with foam and stim toys and noise reduction. π